What to do if your child is playing with fire
What can I do?
Never leave matches or lighters around the house, even in pockets or handbags.
Lock them away or put them out of reach.
Tell your child from an early age:·
- never to touch matches and lighters;
- they are dangerous and can burn,
- they are for grown-ups with no exceptions.
Is my child curious?
Look for the signs:
- Burnt matches lying around
- Burnt pieces of paper left about
- Scorch marks on carpets or soft furnishings in their bedroom
What can I do now?
- Stay calm.
- Don't frighten or punish your child for being curious.
However:
- They must understand the danger they are in.
- Talk about the consequences.
- Seek help.
- Talk to a trusted member of the family or a close friend.
- Make sure you have a fireplan and working smoke alarms.
Contact Us
- Don't panic.
- Act promptly - help is only a phone call away. (0800 917 8137)
- Contact us in confidence.
What happens now?
- Most children show a natural interest and curiosity about fire.
- We work with individual children at home to teach fire safe behaviours and help children overcome fear and curiosity through a gradual process that is under proper adult supervision and guidance.
- We do not punish children but help them to change their dangerous fire-setting behaviour.
- Don't allow fire to destroy your family. The results can be devastating.
To talk to someone confidentially for advice or for a home visit if you would like one please contact 0800 917 8137.
















